Advent

Joy: Your Companion on the Journey 

Pope Benedict XV1 said,

“It is the beautiful task of Advent to awaken in all of us memories of goodness and this opens the doors of hope.”

This third week of Advent ties in well with this message, as hope springs eternal in all of us creating a feeling of joy, which sustains us no matter what path we are on or where we are on the journey.

Why was John the Baptist sent to let people know who was this person Jesus. He became known as the ‘voice in the wilderness’ letting everyone know that Jesus is the light who shows us the way thus enriching our lives. This gift of life comes with a whole range of emotions that people have experienced down through the ages at various ages and stages of our lives. The “light” that Jesus is, is especially important as we experience suffering or sorrow, despair or rejection etc. It creates in us hope to cling to, so that we can feel nourished by joy helping us to count our blessings with the gift of life.

The story of John the Baptist is a simple story told in very few words. But he had a job to do while he found himself living in the wilderness. We can think this was his choice and therefore it was easy for him. But was it? The word wilderness can conjure up lots of different feelings, emotions and experiences in us and I’m sure John the Baptist experienced some or all of them during his time. But we know that he was driven by that hope filled joy knowing that Jesus was the “light” showing a clear path forward and he embraced it fully.

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In our daily lives we can experience difficulty, loss and suffering but when we get the strength to persevere, that deep seated hope can get us through and allow us to feel a sense of joy again. This can be a major or a minor awakening within us. There are many examples throughout our lives when this can occur when we achieve a certain goal, when we find a certain problem has resolved itself or when we get good news in the midst of tragedy etc.

In our busy world today and given the technology and comforts we have created down through the ages it is easy to be impatient and expect instant gratification in many aspects of our lives. We need to reflect on the bigger picture and where we fit into the grand scheme of things and on the meaning of life as we know it.  “Glimmers” are tiny moments of joy, an unexpected phone call, a smile, a bird singing, a cool breeze etc. Once you start looking for them you will find glimmers everywhere. Unfortunately joy too can evaporate and be taken over by other emotions or can become hidden or buried in our psyche, never to become part of our persona that builds strength and resilience to live the life that we were destined to live.

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We all experience these life lessons, they come to us in many different forms, reading other people’s life stories, our own experiences, or just living our lives in a specific community. Advent is a time for us to reflect on those coping strategies that allow us to experience joy filled hope as we embrace all the different aspects of life.

Mary O’Sullivan, CSJ Associate

The Peace Candle is Lit

Reflection for the Second Sunday in Advent: The Peace Candle is Lit.

“Comfort, O comfort my people, “ (Isaiah 40, 1-5)

Looking at the big picture right now, the world could use a little comfort. But alas, we wait. We “wait on the Lord” indefinitely for a time of peace. We also wait for times of personal peace in our own hearts and souls. The question is “ how do we find peace in our waiting?”

  • waiting for the kettle to boil

  • waiting for a baby to be born

  • waiting for a loved one to die

  • waiting for the pandemic to be over

  • waiting to retire

  • waiting for a healing

(think of the man who waited 40 years at the pool of Bethesda)

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On it goes. We wait and wait; sometimes with anticipation and hope, sometimes in fear and dread. Sometimes our waiting can wear us down. Our waiting can often be compared to a walk in the dark. We must go through the darkness day by day, to get to the light. But think of the times in your own life when the trial did end, you got the call, the illness was healed, the baby was born, retirement arrived and the light did come. Is there a lesson here? Is there a cycle here that faith can alleviate? In most cases, the answer is yes! Of course, sometimes there is no happy ending and we must accept the inevitable death of our dreams, hopes and expectations.

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For me, the most difficult wait is the one where fear takes over our usually rational mind. My equilibrium is upset. My racing thoughts won’t cease and my mind takes over. It is said that the ego must always find something to nag us about. This is the time where a regular spiritual practice is important to my wellbeing. It is possible to let go of the ego mind even if it is temporary. I can centre myself in God’s presence and I can find my affirmations one more time and remember to say them. One of my favourites is, “ Let us abandon ourselves Into the heart of LOVE, for LOVE’s grace abides wherever we are.” I believe that this is what John the Baptist is telling us when he says to “make straight in the desert a highway for our God.” Make way for that space within myself where peace resides. Because it does reside in each of us. And so we pray, pray, pray.

And let us be comforted in hope by the words from Isaiah: “he will gather the lambs in his arms and carry them in his bosom, and gently lead the mother sheep.” Be comforted by the words in scripture and in the beautiful music that is available to us. And finally, St. Peter has some words of wisdom for us:

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“ Therefore, Beloved, while you are waiting for these things, strive to be found by him at peace.”

( 2 Peter 3, 8-14)

- Marg Maheu, Associate

Keep Alert. Keep Awake.

ADVENT I - An Advent Reflection on Mark 13: 33-37

(Advent Reflection on Mark 13:33-37)

Dear Jesus,

You came to us, so long ago, as a precious babe lying in a manger.  Shepherds and Magi, alert and awake to their surroundings, came to visit. 

Years later, thousands of others heard your messages, the greatest being, to love God with all your heart and to love your neighbour as yourself.

At times, there were misunderstandings, “Lord, when did we see you hungry, thirsty or sick?”  You explained that whatever is done to the least of us, it is done to you. I believe that means you are always with us. 

Yet, you said, you will come again.

Since we do not know the day or time, you told us to always keep alert and awake.  This, however, is humanly impossible. Remember how you asked Peter and the sons of Zebedee to stay awake but they didn’t, not even for an hour?  You rebuked them, yet, continued to love them and forgave them.  Will you not do the same for us?  If that is so, then we need not worry.

We’ll try our best, Lord, to be awake and alert to the needs of others, to love one another and to love you.  We will, however, fall asleep, from time to time. When we do, may we, with each new awakening, rise up and start anew.

We do not know the future.  Thankfully, we believe and trust in your love and mercy.  For this, we are truly grateful.

As for the present, we will take your teachings to heart and strive to live in hope, peace, joy and love this advent season and all other seasons to come.

Amen.

Written byFernanda Estoesta, Associate of the Sisters of St. Joseph 

33 Be on guard! Be alert! You do not know when that time will come. 34 It’s like a man going away: He leaves his house and puts his servants in charge, each with their assigned task, and tells the one at the door to keep watch.

35 “Therefore keep watch because you do not know when the owner of the house will come back—whether in the evening, or at midnight, or when the rooster crows, or at dawn. 36 If he comes suddenly, do not let him find you sleeping. 37 What I say to you, I say to everyone: ‘Watch!’” - MARK 13: 33-37

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Cultivating Soul Time

Once again a tagline from a commercial caught my attention. The phrase, “Find your oasis. Savour the moment, got me thinking.

Oasis has both a factual and figurative meaning. Its literal meaning is a green spot of life in the desert. In the past, caravans would intentionally stop at these places to find fresh water for their animals and themselves. Metaphorically, an oasis is a metaphor for a flourishing place in one’s life.

The season of Advent invites us to savour the moments of our daily life in a more conscious manner. We are offered an annual invitation to cultivate “soul time”. Yearly, Christians are encouraged to take this seasonal opportunity to find nourishing places of quiet and set aside time to nurture ourselves spiritually.

As Advent begins, how might we put “soul time” on our agenda and in our day planners?

Sister Nancy Wales, CSJ

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