The mind is conditioned by either/or, by this or that. To enter the place where unconditional love resides, you have to let go of subject/object, self, and other. Polarity functions beautifully in the physics of linear reality. But higher reason dissolves the limited functionality of polarity in favour of a reality that is based upon interconnection, interdependence and interpenetration and unity.
The Conscious Activist: Where Activism Meets Mysticism by James O’Dea p. 84