Happy Mother's Day

A Salute to Mothers

This year, Mother's Day in North America is Sunday, May 12th. It’s a day set aside to honor our mothers, living and deceased.  If you had a loving mother and an attentive, supportive father, you won the lottery!

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When we hear the word “mother”, the words loving, caring, consoling, and self-sacrificing come to mind.  Although much has been written by experts on the art of mothering, there is no perfect textbook on the subject.  Usually, basic mothering techniques have been handed down from mothers to daughters throughout the generations but sometimes it is a trial-and-error process.

From the outset, mothering is challenging work.  Recently, there has been a barrage of articles from mothers who seldom speak about the challenges of pregnancy. They refer to the nine months of gestation that often entails constant fatigue, sore feet, nausea and even anxiety. However, these symptoms are sprinkled with strands of hope and love. Indeed, childbirth itself is a searing experience as women bring new life into the world.

As each infant grows, he/she has a unique experience of mother as she nurses and nurtures her little one through childhood, adolescence, post- secondary education, entrance into the workforce, and eventually marriage. Throughout all these stages, mother has worried about her children, endured sleepless nights, and early mornings while always being attentive to the joys and sorrows of young people growing up in an increasingly complex world.

Along with raising children, many mothers work outside the home to help make a living and provide children with life’s necessities, including food, shelter, clothing, and school activities. After a long day at work, there are meals to prepare, homework to supervise and ensure that all is well with each little person.

Mothers are the enduring thread that runs through each person’s life and memories.  Although often taken for granted during childhood - adults, especially when they have their own children, look back and realize the self-sacrifice, generosity, and love that a mother lavishes on her children.  She is a constant reference throughout life, generously available for assistance, advice, love, and friendship.

Mother, on your special day, put your feet up and let your loved ones pamper you!

-Sister Jean Moylan, csj

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World Press Freedom Day

World Press Freedom Day

The thirty-first annual World Press Freedom Day will be held on May 3.  It is a time to reflect on the quality and adequacy of information about events and situations that impact our lives in Canada.  Consider the role of journalists and news organizations in obtaining information, obstacles that impede the publication of information that impacts the well-being and freedom of people, the health of our environment, and the administration of justice. World Press Freedom Day is also a time to consider the responsibility of each of us in advocating and protecting freedom of the press.

In south-western Ontario communities our news reporters, radio and television stations generally, in my opinion, function quite well.  For example, in London, Mayor Josh Morgan is available weekly on the radio to provide information about local government and respond to citizens who phone in with questions.  Newspapers report information about the administration of justice, safety, environmental, and social issues,  Local radio explores current problems such as public transportation or traffic safety.  Citizens have opportunities to raise concerns through letters to the editor or phone calls to a radio station.

Provincially, information about the public good is less available.  Questions arise about private healthcare facilities unjustly charging patients for services, the sale of public land reserved for green spaces, particular developers being favoured, or the construction of highways that many consider unnecessary.  At the federal level, news organizations and journalists protected by legislation continue to demand answers about matters pertinent to the public good.  Yet the government often fails to respond in a timely or adequate manner.  Long-promised revisions of the Access to Information Act languish.  We are fortunate to have journalists who will investigate questionable situations, and report possible abuses. Public pressure and the persistence of journalists uncover actions that the government attempts to keep secret, such as the interference of foreign governments in elections, and the sale of scientific information and products to China.

Attempts to prevent or block disclosure of information occur for various reasons. Information about safety concerns may result in fines, lawsuits, loss of reputation, votes, business, or jobs.  Competent women are sometimes targeted because they are successful in roles traditionally filled by men such as politicians, police,  airplane pilots, or CEOs. In Ontario, there have been several incidents of local female members of city or town councils being targeted by verbal or physical harm. This discourages women from participating in politics.  Corruption in political leaders may lead to scandal, theft of public funds, or defeat in elections. 

Each of us can help to preserve freedom of information.  One way to do this may be by writing a letter to your local city council or member of parliament about a public concern.  Respectful complaints or inquiries about concerns encourage the provision of civil answers.  Prompt and truthful responses would facilitate trust.  Acknowledging errors, failures, and wrongdoing along with what corrective action is being taken is far more acceptable than denial and procrastination.

Democracy cannot survive without freedom of the Press and protecting this freedom is the responsibility of each one of us. On this World Press Freedom Day, may all of us consider ways in which we can support freedom of the press.

-Sister Patricia McKeon

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The Need to Speak Up

Recently, I had the privilege of attending the Annual Peace Luncheon commemorating the 75th anniversary of The Universal Declaration of Human Rights and International Law. Among the distinguished speakers was Dr. Atif Kirbursi, a retired UN official, who underscored the UN's fundamental mission to uphold global peace, a daunting task given the existence of 194 nations worldwide. He recounted numerous instances where the UN's efforts successfully prevented conflicts and averted wars, while acknowledging occasional failures.

Dr. Kirbursi commended the implementation of the sustainable development goals as a yardstick for assessing progress. However, his most poignant message resonated deeply: "No one will give you power; you need to take power yourself." His words emphasized the imperative of proactive engagement against injustices, rather than passivity or indifference.

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This sentiment was echoed by the subsequent speaker, Simin Khaveri, a native of Iran who played a pivotal role in exposing the execution of ten young women, aged 17 to 30, in Iran in 1983. Among these victims was her own sister. These women, adherents of the Bahá’í faith, were put to death for their religious beliefs after enduring months of imprisonment and torture. Despite being offered freedom in exchange for renouncing their faith, they chose martyrdom. Simin's actions in alerting the media shed light on this tragedy, prompting international scrutiny and condemnation of Iran's actions.

Let us remember that when we see injustice, we must speak up.

-Sister Nancy Sullivan, csj

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International Workers Day

  “The dignity of labour depends not on what you do, but on how you do it.”

~ Edwin Osgood Grower

In many countries, International Workers Day is celebrated on May 1st, to acknowledge the contributions of workers, their gains, and struggles. In the United States and Canada, Labour Day, the first Monday of September, marks this observance. However, the first of May is better known to the Sisters of St. Joseph, as the Feast of St. Joseph the Worker, instituted by Pope Pius XII in 1955.  

We Sisters mark May 1st by recognizing the everyday contributions made by our staff whose daily work positively impacts our lives and ministries. On the Feast of St. Joseph the Worker, our London staff are invited to join us in the chapel as an occasion to express our gratitude to the entire staff and for our Annual Staff Service Awards. This year, fourteen employees ranging (in intervals of five- year periods), from 10 years to 30 years of service will be honoured. It is a festive occasion with family and friends invited to attend. A moving part of the ceremony centres on each award recipient being personally thanked by one of the Sisters and presented with a gift to mark the occasion. The generous years of each recipient`s service is acknowledged by warm applause from all present. Following the ceremony, an informal reception is held in the dining room.

Amid the enjoyment of refreshments, Sisters circulate among the employees to express their personal thanks and deep appreciation on a one-to-one basis. Our annual service award celebration is an excellent opportunity to offer gratitude and appreciation to the dedicated employees of the Congregation of Sisters of St. Joseph in Canada.

-Sister Nancy Wales, CSJ

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